People have taken to online dating like a swan takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it may work. Women are, in general, scared of meeting a man that she has been talking with online. They’ve only heard about all the scary things that can happen. I have to say, they have a right to be extremely careful. That’s not only wise but also vital. So what’s a nice guy suppose to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You’re just a nice guy looking for “the” girl that’s right for you.
You have to be patient. Don’t push her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable chatting with you. Don’t rush her into meeting face-to-face. She’ll think you’re desperate or a pervert. Patience.
Be honest about what you look like and your job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deception. Eventually she’ll find out the truth anyway and there you’re back to square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post pictures of yourself doing everyday activities, your hobbies and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you’re dating a women in the real world she wouldn’t just see your face.
Once the conversation has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a public place, during the daytime and that she brings a friend. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen plenty of pictures of you. The only thing is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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