Be Honest

When joining an online dating service, you’re looking for a girl that you may like…maybe come to love. That girl is looking for the same thing you are. What you’re not looking for is a girl who would like you as a best friend. In order to find the right one for you, you need to be honest about yourself when writing your online profile, during the dating process and more.

The best way to start your profile is to analyze your past relationship (s). What was right? What was wrong? What made you really like the last girl? Which didn’t? Don’t think that because you hated that your last girl was totally self-involved that she couldn’t see past anything else but herself, you’ll be able to oversee that quality this time. You won’t.

If you’re not 6’0” with a six-pack, don’t say you are. If you’re a bar tender, don’t say you’re a model with a six-figure income. If you’re 30 going on 40, don’t claim to be 20 something.

Remember, you’re here to find the girl who will like you for who you really are. If you’ve lied in your profile, the first meeting will remove all her doubt that you’re a liar…and more then likely a cheat.

Once you’ve found a girl that you think is the one for you, cancel your online dating membership. After all, you both know that online dating services are there for those who are looking…not those who have found or have been found.