Asking the Right Questions

You’ve joined a couple of dating sites and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a really good picture and now you are going to chat with some users. What now? How do you start picking out those who have real potential and those who don’t have any at all? You need to find out something about who this woman really is and not just who she says she is. It’d be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”…. but they don’t, and you can’t just ask them direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid and how to impress this woman.

After you’re past the small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen attentively to her answers. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men.

Next ask her, “What do you think about online dating?” Now she’ll tell you if she’s had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same mistakes.

Now for the most important one…”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she blames only the guy, you should move on to the next prospect and if she takes all the blame, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was mutual or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you awareness and make you more confident when you meet the women for the first time.